Ziay!

brunette_brewer · 10-07-2009, 06:24 AM

Why do we suject ourselves to such torcher to be "beautiful" when will we realize that our natural beauty is what guys crave.. I could go pluck and tan and my husband wouldn't care less. Oh, and size 3 is so not in anymore!! Only models and anororexic women are this size anymore so what makes you women think that an average guy is going to be intrested in something he can't get? I think it is well past time that we say forget trends and just try being ourselves

gunitgirlluvlylady · 10-07-2009, 06:37 AM

may be their not happy with the way that they see their self in the mirror. maybe makeup is the only way to make them feel how the wanna feel .they may feel god y do i have too look like this

sofia · 10-07-2009, 06:39 AM

honestly i like to improve myself, i like to try diffrent things to improve myself with my hair and clothes! but about my body, i think people want the body they have alway's been dreaming and wanting. so they try to do what they can to make people happy, i only think it okay if it makes you happy not anyone else. i would never do anything to make other people happy unless i was happy with it!!

Libby Loves to Write · 10-07-2009, 06:39 AM

I have fought against this kind of stereotyping for a long time (if not outwardly, certainly inwardly) but have reached the place where I have to admit: I feel better when I am as attractive as I can be. Along with that, I know I am healthier. (I just hate admitting that sometimes because of all the family pressure I've had to be perfect)

BigBogeesh · 10-07-2009, 06:42 AM

Because we still crave the attention. I have been both very heavy and very thin and know both worlds. Truth be told...we women want to feel "wanted"....even if we're married or generally disinterested. It hurts us to see our friends get hit on and get passed by time and time again at the club or bar or just with our friends.

My mother used to say that how people look doesn't matter...that it's what's on the inside that counts. My standard reply to that has always been...that no man can see your personality from the other side of a room....so it doesn't matter how pretty your insides are until they've fallen in love with the outside. Without physical chemistry there is rarely a relationship.

I wish this were NOT the case...but I personally have found this to be true.

10-07-2009, 06:24 AM	#1
brunette_brewer Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	Women and beauty-- For the women here? Why do we suject ourselves to such torcher to be "beautiful" when will we realize that our natural beauty is what guys crave.. I could go pluck and tan and my husband wouldn't care less. Oh, and size 3 is so not in anymore!! Only models and anororexic women are this size anymore so what makes you women think that an average guy is going to be intrested in something he can't get? I think it is well past time that we say forget trends and just try being ourselves

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10-07-2009, 06:37 AM	#2
gunitgirlluvlylady Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	may be their not happy with the way that they see their self in the mirror. maybe makeup is the only way to make them feel how the wanna feel .they may feel god y do i have too look like this

10-07-2009, 06:39 AM	#3
sofia Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	honestly i like to improve myself, i like to try diffrent things to improve myself with my hair and clothes! but about my body, i think people want the body they have alway's been dreaming and wanting. so they try to do what they can to make people happy, i only think it okay if it makes you happy not anyone else. i would never do anything to make other people happy unless i was happy with it!!

10-07-2009, 06:39 AM	#4
Libby Loves to Write Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	I have fought against this kind of stereotyping for a long time (if not outwardly, certainly inwardly) but have reached the place where I have to admit: I feel better when I am as attractive as I can be. Along with that, I know I am healthier. (I just hate admitting that sometimes because of all the family pressure I've had to be perfect)

10-07-2009, 06:42 AM	#5
BigBogeesh Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 1	Because we still crave the attention. I have been both very heavy and very thin and know both worlds. Truth be told...we women want to feel "wanted"....even if we're married or generally disinterested. It hurts us to see our friends get hit on and get passed by time and time again at the club or bar or just with our friends. My mother used to say that how people look doesn't matter...that it's what's on the inside that counts. My standard reply to that has always been...that no man can see your personality from the other side of a room....so it doesn't matter how pretty your insides are until they've fallen in love with the outside. Without physical chemistry there is rarely a relationship. I wish this were NOT the case...but I personally have found this to be true.

Ziay!

Women and beauty-- For the women here?

Women and beauty-- For the women here?