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CHECHE · 09-23-2009, 07:10 PM

...separated from his wife.? I have been separated from my husband and has 2 children I have been involved with a maried man, but he has been separated from his wife for more than 5 years now. He admits he doesnt love his previous one and he has plans of filing an anullment. He has 2 children from her. He continues to give financial support to his children and it's always ok with me. I also have plans of pursuing my marriage for anullment. My husband has abandoned my children and never gives financial support . I am presently working with the guy, and most of the time that I am in a very down situation, he is always there to support and bear with me. U to the extent that when my son was brught to the hospital and was confined there, he never left me. He also insisted of buying milk and vitamins and dapers for my children. I loe this guy now, but I know it's not right. what to do.

mizz_kitty_79 · 09-23-2009, 07:21 PM

Both of you leave your marriages. Then (and only then) should you continue your relationship. Good luck.

~*Jenny*~ · 09-23-2009, 09:08 PM

Its been five years, he should already be divorced, seem like hes holding onto it. Both of you guys should get a divorce, and see from there, to see if you guys want to be together in a long term relationship, or marriage.

cheetah7 · 09-23-2009, 10:09 PM

Get a divorce from your spouses if you want to get together with him and start a family. He can still continue to support his children.

watchulookinat · 09-24-2009, 01:59 AM

Um.....he's separated. A lawyer should tell you that he's not married; the final writ isn't filed, that's all. My lawyers told me that when I became legally separated. You're not doing anything wrong. Annulment? Sounds like maybe a Catholic thing? Not a legal issue, and there is no reason why you should feel bad at all about being with him nor he with you!

Stranger in a Strangeland · 09-24-2009, 02:10 AM

Both of you need a divorce, if you want to be with each other.

thunderbirdx18 · 09-24-2009, 02:15 AM

Whats meant to be will always find a way.

Richard · 09-24-2009, 03:04 AM

Separated is not split into two units. If the two of you are serious about having a relationship, then finalize your legal and moral issues with your current partners BEFORE you go any further.

No form of birth control is 100 percent effective, and if you are not having an intimate relationship then you are missing out on the best way to make sure that this one does not end like the last one.

The other stuff is just details which can be worked out. The basis for your relationship must come first. Concentrate on this.

freeman3905@sbcglobal.net · 09-24-2009, 09:59 PM

i think he is using you 5 years and he did not let her go stay away from him it's a lot trouble would you like it if some one took you love away from you don't go for his tricks their is a lot of good men out their

Schnauzer Mom ? · 09-26-2009, 01:17 AM

What do you do? Stop procrastinating getting the annullments and get legally clear of your marriages.

09-23-2009, 07:10 PM	#1
CHECHE Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Having relationship with a married man, how to deal with it?But he is 5 years... ...separated from his wife.? I have been separated from my husband and has 2 children I have been involved with a maried man, but he has been separated from his wife for more than 5 years now. He admits he doesnt love his previous one and he has plans of filing an anullment. He has 2 children from her. He continues to give financial support to his children and it's always ok with me. I also have plans of pursuing my marriage for anullment. My husband has abandoned my children and never gives financial support . I am presently working with the guy, and most of the time that I am in a very down situation, he is always there to support and bear with me. U to the extent that when my son was brught to the hospital and was confined there, he never left me. He also insisted of buying milk and vitamins and dapers for my children. I loe this guy now, but I know it's not right. what to do.

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09-23-2009, 07:21 PM	#2
mizz_kitty_79 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Both of you leave your marriages. Then (and only then) should you continue your relationship. Good luck.

09-23-2009, 09:08 PM	#3
~Jenny~ Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Its been five years, he should already be divorced, seem like hes holding onto it. Both of you guys should get a divorce, and see from there, to see if you guys want to be together in a long term relationship, or marriage.

09-23-2009, 10:09 PM	#4
cheetah7 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Get a divorce from your spouses if you want to get together with him and start a family. He can still continue to support his children.

09-24-2009, 01:59 AM	#5
watchulookinat Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Um.....he's separated. A lawyer should tell you that he's not married; the final writ isn't filed, that's all. My lawyers told me that when I became legally separated. You're not doing anything wrong. Annulment? Sounds like maybe a Catholic thing? Not a legal issue, and there is no reason why you should feel bad at all about being with him nor he with you!

09-24-2009, 02:10 AM	#6
Stranger in a Strangeland Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Both of you need a divorce, if you want to be with each other.

09-24-2009, 02:15 AM	#7
thunderbirdx18 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	Whats meant to be will always find a way.

09-24-2009, 03:04 AM	#8
Richard Junior Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 7	Separated is not split into two units. If the two of you are serious about having a relationship, then finalize your legal and moral issues with your current partners BEFORE you go any further. No form of birth control is 100 percent effective, and if you are not having an intimate relationship then you are missing out on the best way to make sure that this one does not end like the last one. The other stuff is just details which can be worked out. The basis for your relationship must come first. Concentrate on this.

09-24-2009, 09:59 PM	#9
freeman3905@sbcglobal.net Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	i think he is using you 5 years and he did not let her go stay away from him it's a lot trouble would you like it if some one took you love away from you don't go for his tricks their is a lot of good men out their

09-26-2009, 01:17 AM	#10
Schnauzer Mom ? Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 1	What do you do? Stop procrastinating getting the annullments and get legally clear of your marriages.

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Having relationship with a married man, how to deal with it?But he is 5 years...

Having relationship with a married man, how to deal with it?But he is 5 years...