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Old 07-11-2008, 06:22 PM   #1
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I was F*ck buddies with a guy that I met.

I ended up falling for him, which was the last thing I wanted (he was not a good guy for me... no job... 26 and acted 12... alcoholic).

About 3 months ago, I had found out I was pregnant, and when I told him, he said, "It's happened twice before, we'll just get rid of it."

I stormed out of his house, and didn't talk to him for a while.

I recently had a miscarriage and he has been trying to get a hold of me. I no longer have any attachment to him, so am I wrong for not wanting to be around him?

He says I "misunderstood" him, and he just wants to take me to dinner to explain.

Does he have something else in mind?

I can be his friend still, but want nothing more to do with him.

What do I do?

Serious answers only please....

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Old 07-11-2008, 06:23 PM   #2
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It's hard to say. Try going out to dinner with him, but nothing special. See what he has to say, maybe he has changed. And if he doesn't prove himself to you, you never have to see him again
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Old 07-11-2008, 06:23 PM   #3
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just go to dinner and see what he has to say. if he wants sex than leave him.
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Old 07-11-2008, 11:10 PM   #4
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THis is just my opinion, but that's not a guy you want to be hanging around. He's only going to continue taking advantage of you, and he obviously doesn't have your best interests in mind. All he want sis to have a good time, and completely disregards anything bad that could happen to you. Best of luck in whatever you decide.
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Old 07-12-2008, 06:40 AM   #5
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It may be hard to go to dinner && face him,
It may not be.
But i say you should go,
See if he really cares about you or your p*ssy.
Im for sure he will let you know.
Just dont forget boys are sweet talkers!
SO BE CAREFUL!

Im sorry to hear about the miss carriage.
Everything happens for a reason you know.
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Old 07-12-2008, 09:26 AM   #6
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Your not wrong at all. I wouldn't do dinner. keep him at arms length. You fell for him once, don't' make the same mistake again.

If you "misunderstood him" and you were friends how is this going to change?

Let him go, move on and find joy.
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Old 07-12-2008, 09:38 AM   #7
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I think u should try going 2 dinner if he is the same immature jerk then leave dinner and tell him 2 stay away!!! If he doesn't stay away there is something called a restraining order!!!!!
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Old 07-12-2008, 09:44 AM   #8
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forget about him.
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Old 07-12-2008, 09:51 AM   #9
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no you shouldn't go to "dinner"

and you shouldn't even want to stay friends with a jerk like that.

it's like you made one mistake with him and there you are going back for another one.
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Old 07-12-2008, 09:52 AM   #10
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It's funny how a woman will let herself be used, act like a **** and then expect everything from a man ! How dumb.
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