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Old 06-08-2008, 03:24 AM   #1
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My Dad's girlfriend's family is always early and it drives us nuts! He is very punctual and me? almost always a bit late....
But we agree it is rude, rude, rude, cuz afterall, what is the last thing prepared? YOU!
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:24 AM   #2
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i agree with catnip. as long as its no more than 15 minutes
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #3
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no its not, as long as your not more than 15 minutes early.
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #4
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ofcoarse not. when they come early, they can help out a bit.
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #5
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Usually when people show up early, I say "I'm glad you're here. Here, set the table" and I hand them the dishes! Most of the tiime people are understanding and most offer to help anyway.
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #6
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It depends on how early. Are we talking just about 15 minutes? Or so early that maybe the host/hostess hasn't even had time to get dressed? I think if the person who invited you has to say something like, "Take a seat, I'll be down as soon as I get dressed." then they have to run aroundm hurrying to get finished, then it was way too early.
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #7
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It is rude to show up early. One should show up 5 to 7 minutes late. When guests arrive early, politely ignore them: "You of course won't mind while I finish with preparing for dinner." Go about your necessary business while the guests sit, waiting. Guests should never be pressed into service, before or after dinner.
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:25 AM   #8
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I think it is rude, if it annoys the host(s). Some people really don't want to be caught in the middle of the preparations for a dinner, so stay away! But some people will be surprised at happy to see the visitors earlier.
Konklusion: Depends on who invites....
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Old 06-08-2008, 03:26 AM   #9
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Yes, it's rude. I agree with you!
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